Yoz KR! Well, let's not mention about those Robin Hood-like cases because in actual fact, they are utterly rare...

 

Also, as for the r/s part, I think if you just go solely by feeling or as you say, what the heart wants, then I think you are missing out quite abit of consideration factors that are necessary to maintain a relationship~ Remember some things cannot be solved just by following your heart, as it may result in unbearable consequences.. If it wasn't true, there would not be phrases like 力不从心 or 有心无力 already! These indicate limitations of just doing things based on your heart..

 

To Steph: Tnx so much ^^

 

To Gary: If someone accepts bribery cos he needs it for his family to survive? I still believe that most people are rational, and for almost everything we do, we weigh the consequences b4 doing them... Except.... For.... Relationships. Cos thats where the heart truly wants ^^

Good Luck.=)

I think when making a choice, you can choose to be rational or irrational.. and either can they present a positive or negative perspective.

 

Choices can be wrong also! For example of a bribery case, would you say that the person involved does not know whether he is be being bribed? I doubt so, but he may chose to do the wrong choice at that moment but still, he made the wrong choice despite being sober and conscious of what he is doing. That is the basis of the law to convict him. It goes the same way for relationships too! hahahaha

 

Okay... I am long winded~ =PpP